Rolf Hedman Mentor

Email: info@rolfhedmanmentor.se

Telefon: +46 (0)702 46 02 56

 

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Here are some verified and widely cited quotes of wisdom from **Virginia Satir** (1916–1988), pioneering family therapist and author, known for her humanistic approach to therapy and communication:

1. **“We must not allow other people’s limited perceptions to define us.”**
– A call to personal agency and self-worth beyond others’ expectations.

2. **“Every word, facial expression, gesture, or action on the part of a parent gives the child some message about self-worth.”**
– Satir emphasized how deeply parenting and communication influence self-esteem.

3. **“I am convinced that there are no genes to carry the inevitability of conflict, violence, or war. We have the power to change these patterns.”**
– Reflects her belief in human potential and the ability to transcend destructive behaviors.

4. **“The problem is not the problem; coping is the problem.”**
– A key insight from her therapeutic philosophy: it’s not just what happens to us, but how we relate to and manage it.

5. **“Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible.”**
– A foundation for healthy relationships, whether in families, teams, or societies.

6. **“Life is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.”**
– Another reflection of her deep focus on adaptability, realism, and growth.

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— Virginia Satir, ChatGPT 4.0